If you intend to visit me and to meet with me, you should know my thoughts as following
• I’m not an orphan. Some of my friends have got mom or dad alive and some of them have got either mom or dad alive. • Please, don’t judge my parents. There have been important reasons for them to leave me here. • I may not permanently stay here so I may go back to my family’s home. • Please, don’t look at me pityingly. • Please, don’t ask questions to me about my family. • I’m only a child. Please, don’t be embarrassed even if my clothes are dirty. So please, remember that my dirty clothes may include some fun indicators. • Please, don’t expect me to trust you during your first visit. Do you have any idea that how many people visit us everyday? • Please, don’t ask implicit questions about why I’m here. I’m only a child not stupid. • Please, don’t criticize me. • Please, don’t promise me for what you will not realize. • Please, don’t yell to me. • Please, don’t advise me. • I may not play with you. Please, don’t compel me for it. • Please, don’t compare me with other children. • You don’t have to bring present for me. • If you appreciate me, it makes me happy. • I may want you to be only my sister or brother or friend. • I don’t like you to watch me when I eat the foods, which you bring here. • Is it possible to eat these foods together? • I hate school. • My friends at school ridicule with me, as if it is my choice to live here! • It is not necessary for me to work on my lessons somehow my teacher will make me passed the exams since she pities me. • It is not necessary for me to work on my lessons somehow the manager of our orphanage will talk to my teachers for my bad marks. • I fed up doubts about me when there is any bad situation at school. • I don’t like wearing same clothes with my friends in orphanage. • I don’t like going out with the personnel and friends in orphanage since it makes me unhappy to see pitying eyes around us. • Why do you tell to other people what I said you? • During your first visit you played with me so why are you playing with other child now? • The presents, which you bring for me, are not so important because I’m happy firstly for your visits. • Please, don’t take my photo without my permission. • Please, don’t forget that you haven’t got magic wand in your hand. You can’t improve anything with only one visit. • I may sometimes tell stories to you since I need your care or I need pampering. • You don’t expect me to adore you because of your visits, do you? • Please, don’t forget! Visiting us is only your choice. I don’t have to make you happy or honoured because of your visits.
